“No One Has To Die For Me To Be Free”, My New Fabric Painting

My Fabric Painting “No One Has To Die for me to be Free”   32″ x 42 1/2 “.  

I sat in my studio not knowing what to do.  Our friend, the farmer and artist  Ed Gulley had just been diagnosed with brain cancer the day before.  Focusing on work that morning was not easy.

Really, the only thing that had any potential to hold my attention was to start drawing, and draw big.

So I found an old quilt that someone gave me and on the back of it I began a drawing.  But it wasn’t right, I don’t even remember now what bothered me about it, only that I wanted to start over.  So I laid the quilt on the floor, face up, and in between the appliquéd flowers or sunbursts, I started to draw with a  black permanent marker.

When I first started the

You can see how the original quilt design influenced my drawings.  How I fit them in the white quilted spaces between the appliqué.

When I was in art school, my MFA thesis was based around unraveling doilies and afghans  and reconfiguring them.  Since then I’ve been drawn to the idea of  undoing what someone else has done and remaking it.

It doesn’t feel disrespectful to me, because I’m taking what other people no longer want, because it is damaged beyond use or has lost its original usefulness,  but don’t want to throw away, usually  for sentimental reasons.

I started removing parts from quilts with the first Fabric Painting I made a few years ago.  So it was natural for me to start removing the appliqué, like a sculptor carves a piece of marble to reveal what she sees inside of it.

The process of removing the appliqué

Over the past five months I’ve  hand and machine stitched, re-appliqued original pieces of fabric and  new ones,  and used permanent markers to draw on the old quilt.

There’s an old velvet needle and pin book, a lady’s glove (like a painted hand print on a cave wall), a felted snake and wolf from a bible class.  I used pieces of an old Victorian wall hanging that Veronica sent me made by her grandmother, including a moon, star and butterfly.   I stitched on some of my own drawings too.

“Tattooing” the Goddesses face was one of the last things I did.

I remember walking into my studio after a  difficult day and seeing the Goddesses eyes looking at me.  I felt reassured by her.  As if she were a touch stone, a grounding place to come back to.

About a month ago I got the idea to “tattoo” her face.  I looked online for images. But it wasn’t until last week that I had the guts to start it.  I was afraid, because if it didn’t work, there was no turning back.

But it did work.

And the strength that comes through in her expression, I believe reveals in myself a new strength that I’m feeling within myself.  I probably didn’t finish this piece until now, because I couldn’t have done it before.

I didn’t have it within me.

I can’t explain each image on this piece and tell you  exactly what it means.  Like a painting, it’s a combination of them all together, placed as they are, that make the whole piece work.

I can tell you that the first version of my Flying Vulva is in the “moon” on the back of the wolf.

And that many of the images come from my visual vocabulary that I use again and again (like the red boot).

The words “No one has to die for me to be free” came to me sometime during the months I was working on this piece.  At the time I was dealing with some  of the psychological  holds my birth family had on me.

I though of when my father died over 20 years ago and how afterwards many things in my life became easier without him.  And I  wondered if I might feel the same kind of freedom if other people were no longer alive.

It actually makes me uncomfortable to admit I had this thought.  But I know I’m not alone in it.  And at certain times in people lives, like when people are on the verge of a divorce, it’s not uncommon for spouses to imagine each other’s death.

But I didn’t really want anyone to have to die for me to feel free.

I want them to be able to live their lives and me mine, without the tether between us that was weighing me down.

I  also thought of how when my friend Ed learned he was going to die, he finally felt a freedom he had never known.

I don’t want death to be involved with my being free.

This fabric painting acknowledges death, ( the owl, which in many cultures is a symbol of death and the in the autumn tree)  but it isn’t about death.  There are just as many symbols of life and rebirth  (the flying vulva, the sunrise, the dancing woman, butterfly, the snake ).

No One Has To Die For Me To Be Free” is about finding freedom from the inside out.  About being free within and being brave enough to live  that freedom, in what ever form it takes, out in the world.

No On Has To Die For Me To Be Free”  is Sold for sale.  It’s 32″x42 1/2″ and is $500 + $25 shipping.

If you’re interested in it you can email me here, at [email protected].  I take checks and PayPal.  I’m also putting it in my Etsy Shop, just click here to buy it there.


9 thoughts on ““No One Has To Die For Me To Be Free”, My New Fabric Painting

  1. Maria, I only wish I had $500 to afford this one special piece. I’ve taken the liberty of keeping the photo from Jon’s site and I shall look at it again and again. it is to me, the most stunning of all your pieces, the tattooing alone, is incredible but I know what you mean, tackling an idea that you have in your head is different when you put it down on paper or cloth. It is a superb piece of work and thank you for giving your artist’s statement on it. Now I see, the Dresden Plate was a continuum of another person’s creative life on yours. I don’t know what more to say other than you’ve done good work, you must feel very proud of yourself for this project of yours.
    Sandy Small Proudfoot
    Mono, Ontario, Canada

    1. Well thank you very much Sandy. I know you wanted to know more about the piece, I’m glad you got to read about it on my blog. And I found the Dresden plate interesting to read about when I looked it up. You are such a accomplished quilter, It really means a lot to me when you like one of my pieces.

  2. I am hoping so much that you will consider doing prints and/or postcards of this extraordinary piece. I look at — and am inspired by — your “Show Your Soul” poster many times a day…as does my new daughter-in-law, whom I gave it to on the night before she married my son.
    Your work energizes, supports and motivates me often, as I believe it does many others.

    Virginia, Jensen Beach, Fla.

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